In Her Words: Nina's Perspective on Black History Month

As I reflect on what Black History Month means to me, I'm reminded of the journey I've taken to embrace my own identity and heritage.

Growing up in a predominantly white environment in SoCal, I often found myself navigating through a sea of faces that didn't quite mirror my own. With both of my parents and much of my family being of mixed heritage, and not having the close presence of extended family, I struggled to fully comprehend what it meant to be Black. I found myself caught in the middle of the mixed kid experience, people telling me that I'm not black or white enough for either group, and grappling with the complexity of my identity. Despite this, from a young age, I learned to lové everyone regardless of the color of their skin. No one was better than the next in my eyes. So, encountering people who believed otherwise left me perplexed, wondering why we couldn't simply accept each other for who we are.

I moved to Queens at the age of 11, I cannot express enough gratitude for that transformative experience!! It wasn't just a change of scenery; it was a pivotal moment that opened my eyes to the richness of culture that surrounded me. Immersed in the diverse fabric of NYC, I began to embrace my Blackness in ways I hadn't before. 

In recent years, my journey of self-discovery has led me to delve deeper into Black History. I believe Black excellence must be celebrated every day. The resilience, creativity, and strength exhibited by Black individuals throughout history serve as a testament to our collective power and resilience and keep me uplifted when I feel down.

Moreover, I've found inspiration and education through various mediums. Whether it's watching YouTube videos, connecting through music, or literature. I've used these avenues to learn and express myself creatively. From embracing my natural afro, learning how to cornrow my hair as an act of meditation and self lové, finding joy in my unique beauty, learning more about African spirituality, and creating something from the music I feel inspired by.

Sharing this knowledge with friends, elders I meet out and about, and engaging with the owners at a spiritual wellness shops I go to has further enriched my understanding of our history and culture and been such fulfilling experience.

In essence, Black History Month is a time for reflection, celebration, and empowerment. To me it's a reminder of the resilience of our ancestors and the potential for positive change within ourselves and our communities. As we continue to walk this journey together, let us do so with pride, lové, and a commitment to lifting each other up.

“For Black People, The Past Is Painful, The Present Precarious, But The Future Is Free”

- Erika Alexander -